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[bhappy2]

Sandi, I have set no firm boundries bc right now it was just getting along doing things as a family. She will not do anything with me alone and other than telling me on july 16th that she wants a D i do not see any place to set boundries. So with that said here is what I did today:

I asked W to start paying her own cell phone bill, the cell phone bill is in her name and I asked to switch it back to my name and for her to get her own bill with her line. I pay the bill right now but this issue was bothering me since BD and i read that you said that LBH should make WW pay there own way.

Well you guessed it she said fine and now that I want her off the bill she will be filing for D after Xmas and she doesnt want the kids to know anything until we are actually D'ed. I said if thats the way you feel then file tomorrow, she said again she doesnt want to upset the children. As we are having this conversation I was calm cool and never raised my voice, she starts to tear up and breaks out in hives all over her neck.

She left for work and I havent heard anything from her. She has a completely harded heart and she also said for many years I was not there for her.