Hope everyone was able to get through the Holidays with some peace.
Nothing serious to report back. Operation NC/Dark still in place with W. At the last phone chat I had told her I didn't have any interest in being her friend.
Nothing to read into here, but she sent me a buncha kid photos over the weekend and suggested a social activity that I would enjoy. That was a bit weird but I didn't respond to the texts because there was nothing to say.
Then the next day she sends me some stuff about issues with the kids to which I responded because my D is having a hard time with some stuff at school. And during that she texted me about what they did over the weekend and what not. I just responded to her about the D stuff and let the other things go. All the non-kid stuff would be convos that you would have with someone you wanted to be 'friends' with, which I have clearly stated is not the position that I want to play.
Anyways, not reading into it, but it was definitely weird. In the real scheme of things, a few texts are not going to turn anything around. But, being NC/Dark has been good for me. 2 months ago her texts would've taken up a lot more mental space than now.
All in all, things are great and I am looking forward to the holidays. Going to figure out some traditions that are just going to be me and the kiddos. They need to have a lot of happiness this season as they been through a lot.
