Thanks everyone for your feedback. I hear you loud and clear about the bitterness. No question - it's not what you say it's how you say it. It got me to thinking, isn't the real message that I will start building a new family dynamic for us - a family that does not include W. Truly it's about me - so what is next for me is ... and this is how it will impact my children.
Thoughts
M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017