I have to agree with joejoe, my XWW is still phoning me to check up on me. As though she needs to make sure that i'm still somehow thinking about her. Can't even recall her name... lol

The WS needs to know that they are wanted. If they are not wanted by you, then they have no reason to fight for your attention. Give them no attention, you cannot understand the reasons why they do things, so take them at face value only. She acts nice, then thats what it is - her ACTING nicely.

You then act nice too, acting nice should be your persona at all times.

Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.