Daystar,

Just wanted to put in my two sense on the issues with you daughter. If it were me (depending on your state, but many have a one party consent law on recording. I.E. only one person in the convo. needs to know it's being recorded...YOU. Look into that) I'd put my phone on record and pull my daughter aside and bait here into a conversation on why she would day the things about testifying that she did. Ask her why she would make things up and why she would lie. Sounds like she is filled with "venom"and trying to hurt you emotionally. Sit back, listen and ask her open ended questions. You might get some insight into how to start rebuilding that relationship. You might also get some recordings that will come in handy one day in the future should you find yourself the recipient of what she has already told you she would do. If you don't live in a one party consent state, text messages will also do the job just fine.