I appreciate your reply. That's just it, I am aware of my wife's seriousness and capabilities and honestly sometimes it scares me. She is a strong willed person and has proven in the past she can walk away from someone or a situation without hesitation. I just get confused on why she is polite at times the way she is. Last night I had to go back to the house to get our S14 and bring him back with me. He is living with me because the plan before she came back from deployment was for S14 to start his freshman year of HS with me. W was supposed to come back from deployment and move down here with me in the summer after our D17 graduates from high school. I digressed. Anyways, last night we went out to a fast-food restaurant and dined in. She sat directly next to me and was leaning in on me showing me pictures of her and our D's 4&5 from the cruise they just came from. She was polite and didn't come off as wanting out of her space. Fast forward to today. I told her I was going to get on the road headed back to the apartment at a specific time. Well I didn't leave at the exact time I said I would. She came into our bedroom and "hey, I just checked GPS and it looks like traffic is really backing up. I don't want you on the road getting tied up in traffic and having problems" She came off sounding loving and concerned vs a woman who wants a D ASAP. I gathered the last few things I needed to take with me and was preparing to leave out the door. I gave our little D's each and kiss and I told the W "I'll see you later" as I was walking out the door. She replied "OK, please be safe" but again in a loving and concerned tone. She's doing things that indicate she's working fast at the D but I still struggle with how she contacts me daily and is pleasant with me the majority of the time. From most of the posts I've read the majority of the WAW's seem to disappear and go radio silent on the LBH's.
