So Not too much happening on my front. I am getting ready for the holidays with the kids. I'm becoming content. Scary I know. I find myself more happy on most then not. I no longer come up with reasons to contact H. I never reach out to him on weekends. And guess what. Now he does. Sure enough Sunday comes along and he finds a reason to text me. I keep it short and to the point. I no longer argue. Nothing. He hasn't come into the house since he left uninvited. The other day he came in to hand our son his headphones. Which is weird because I was right at the door. It was abnormal behaviour for him. He is also checking out every picture I post on FB. I know this because he gets notifications for FB thru his email and he clicks on every single one of them now. Yes I still can get into his email. Right now I check it occasionally for financial reasons. Not because I'm interested in his personal life. Lol. Figures. Textbook. I finally begin to move forward and now he is texting me and checking on me. Do I have my hopes up for reconcile? Nope. Because he would have to do drastic changes to enter my peaceful world right now.