Hi Coly. My advice is to stay away from toxic friends, which she definitely sounds like. I had to sift through the people who I felt good with and the people who left me feeling terrible. In these tough times, we are very sensitive to things said and that is normal. Stick with the supportive and kind friends.
And for the record, I still stay away from people or situations that may bring on questions or statements that may bring on those waves of sadness. It's just not worth it. Put yourself first.
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Me 48 H 46 S 11 M 2004 BD 8/13 H moved out 2/15 -live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-