WW in EA, NC w/OM(?), W's BFF interfering, part 7

[hoosjim]

First off she may not have been referring to sex.

I think it most likely she was referring to going out, and not to sex, but... with her anything's possible.

Second, yes as a man it is your job to seduce her and lead her to the bedroom.

I can tell you’re afraid of being rejected. What do you have to lose at this point?

I'm not so much scared of rejection as I am scared of spooking her away. It's weird because in general my self confidence these days is higher than it has ever been. I don't have any concerns (and there have been numerous positive indications) about my ability to approach/attract women... and that's not saying I'm any kind of Brad Pitt look-alike or anything, cuz I'm not, but I DO have the level of confidence necessary... in general. But I feel like-- and I have told both my IC and my DB coach this at verious times-- that the rules with this girl (my W) are different right now than they are or would be with any other "available" girl on the planet.