Nice to hear from you, Elsa! I'm glad you've landed on your feet.
I wouldn't waste time trying to get your ex to admit to the cheating. It's a pointless effort, because if he admits that he pulled that on you he'd have to take responsibility for the end of the marriage. It's very convenient for him to be able to blame you for everything.
I'm glad you've gotten perspective on the marriage and wish you very much the best in your new marriage -- keep us posted!
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
