Having a SSM for a long time can cause both partners to wait on the other one to make the first move.
Thanks, Sandi. Yeah, that was definitely a backslide for me towards the old "me". Needed to "just do it" there. Nothing ventured nothing gained.
Before I close this thread, and based on the history I provided, any other thoughts on whether or not and if so how I should broach the ring issue with her (if at all?)
H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18
"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7
"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3
