You are talking at night and watching shows together and still eating dinner together every night? Why? Take yourself out Of these situations. Who does the cooking? Is it you, because your W goes walking to talk to OM every night. Stop doing these things. That is your time now. Not you'll. Go away for a few days. Maybe spend the night on the lake. You are making yourself to available.
How did you know about the sex toys? Did you open the box, did your son open the box? I'm confused on how you even know. If your W opened the box, how did you know what was in it. You'll sleep in separate rooms. Seems to me you are still doing some lurking. You havent had enough yet.
You can tell us one thing GW, but your actions are speaking louder than your post.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
