I am about to hit the year mark soon. Wasted so much time trying to bring logic to a sitch that makes no sense. Always remember that and work on yourself. My W is already making mistakes and I intend on sitting back and watching her land on her face. I have improved so much since DB and always these OM don't compare to me to be honest. Not bragging, but it is simply the truth.
My W is the problem and yours is likely the same. Nothing you do will change her mind until, she hits the point where she accepts her mistakes Then she will actually see all the changes you have made. From what I have noticed and heard, feeling that harsh reality is what bring back the WS.