Hey Sandi. Been awhile. Just wondering if you had any further take on the ring angle or anything. That was a new one on me and one i hadnt considered.
Well.......it seems to me if she said she was committed to working on the MR, she would have put on her wedding ring.
I don't hHave hang-ups about rings, if they were not removed due to acting like GGW, or an A, etc. However, when that is the case......and then if she ends that behavior and commits to the M.......why would it not be a natural reaction to put on her wedding ring? Isn't that a sign of being in a committed relationship?
I hope I am wrong to worry about this, but it just seems a bit off. If her finger is not swollen, or if the rings is not too large........there is only one reason I can think that would prevent her from wearing it. That being, she hasn't come to terms with wanting to play the single life. Yeah, she may say she's being honest with you in some way, by not wearing it........just like her flirting and using inappropriate conversation with other men.
It seems unfair to claim she will stay in the M but won't make that one effort that tells other men she is a M woman. She needs to see the IC and get her head straight.
Did she go with you on the four day trip? How has it gone?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
