Thats good that you have reached the right frame of mind. I a not there yet, but I have realized I am now in control of myself. I like to think of it as they opened the door and walked out, its now my choice in how long that door stays open, if I close it, and then if I want to change the locks on it.
M:43 W:33 M:10 T:11 D:6 BD 8/12/17 Divorce Final 1/23/2019