Originally Posted By: Caz49
Well done on keeping calm and agreeable with the emails. It's very painful being faced with this level of rejection but you're doing great!

Try and have a good weekend and keep up with the friendships you've made and old friendships you've rediscovered.


Thanks for the support Caz, I need all I can get at this point - that's for sure! Did you deal with this kind of all out rejection when you were separated in 2009, or was there hesitation? Everyone keeps telling me there is "a lot of back and forth" during a divorce, but for him (except the first couple of weeks), it has been a one way street to divorce and crazytime.


DB August 6, 2017 after 3 month separation
Me: 54
H: 58
Two Teenage sons
Living Separately from H
Married 19 years, together 22 years
Not sure if this is an MLC or WAS