Probably best to keep on keeping on with your stuff, if he comes along for the journey good, if not, as you said there were no expectations, so no fresh pain.
I got a lot of vague promises in the past...maybe I'll go to IC, maybe this maybe that...it was all bs and I knew it.
So exciting for the 20 week scan, focus on that beautiful photo you'll soon have in your hands. Keep well.
Me 50 H 48 S 23 S 21 D 19 Together 31 years Married 25 years Separated April 2009 Reconciled 2010 Separated September 2017