Well he wants to move forward with divorce so using the Last Resort Technique, I did the opposite of what he expected. I was congenial, applauded us for what we were already able to agree on, and hoped we could continue to move forward without too much disagreement, etc. Told him I am ready to move forward with the process. We are really only communicating by email at this point (his monster has come out too much for me in person). He seems very happy to be moving forward with it and his last couple of emails have been nice and friendly. He seems super glad that I'm not resisting. Of course he may change his mind about that when we start talking money. Not sure what to make of all this. It really seems like he wants out asap! Doesn't feel good, but at least he's being nice enough past couple of emails.
DB August 6, 2017 after 3 month separation Me: 54 H: 58 Two Teenage sons Living Separately from H Married 19 years, together 22 years Not sure if this is an MLC or WAS