It gets that way. But you seem to not be worried about where she is going. You seemed more focused on yourself, which is always a good thing in these Sitchs.
I'm glad you see yourself in a place to help others.
Many people come here looking for a person to not only read their Sitch, but just reply sometimes. If you think you can help, IMO, you can.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.