Awkward Situation Got Much Worse (part 4 )

[joejoe1]

Tate,

Have you ever told your W to get out? Have you ever told her you don't want her anymore? It sounds harsh, but the WW response better to strength than weakness. It's time for you to make those hard decisions.

I sat in more car and ran all the scenarios through my mind. From recon to D. I cried it out. I lashed out, all in my car. Than I told myself no more. I made D a possibility. When it came time I had no problem telling my W to get out/leave. I didn't only need her gone, I wanted her gone and she knew it.

Your wife has to know she will lose you, not may lose you, but she will lose you. You have to be willing to walk away, for her to walk towards you again. Don't use walking away as a ploy to get her back, it won't work. She will know if you are bluffing. It's your life and your train, she can ride if she wants but you will longer be stopping at her stop, she is going to have to jump on this train to ride it. And it is not going in her direction, it's going in yours. Her direction is not right for you or your family.

Here's the thing, when your train leave the station, it won't be coming back to pick her up, it's gone forever and she has to know that. Your train your rules. If she chases the train to get a ride, it's your decision to let her on. When she gets on she has to put in the work to stay on your train, she can be booted anytime she isnt acting like a loyal, hardworking passenger.

Full steam ahead Tate!