waw maybe

[bhappy2]

Went to dinner yesterday and it was great, came back to our house and had dessert and played games, a lot of fun.

W was friendly to me when she would ask me something but cold when I asked her anything. Her answers are now always "I don't Know" I could ask is this the front door and she will reply "I don't know".

Her family who does not know the sitch was very friendly and nice and continually asking me to come by the house or stop by and one out of state relative asked me to visit. I have had a great relationship with my inlaws from the beginning.

Today the W is very cold and is texting away right in front of me, I guess she thinks I care but at this point I really don't. She has been making herself look rather childish to our children b/c she is not communicating any info to them with regards to the house or plans i.e feeding the dog, a expected delivery and even not telling anyone what time Thanksgiving dinner was.

W decided she was going to drivve herself to Thanksgiving dinner and all the children got in my car, then S22 jumped in with her... she then asked one of the kids to drive home b/c she had several drinks, life in turmoil!

When I first started to read these boards I was skeptical about when vets said there will come a time when you will not want W back, well I am there... I do not even recognize this person anymore and neither do our children. This is her journey not mine anymore.

I will start to post more and more b/c I believe I have some things that may help others.

Find peace, detach!!! detach!!!