Thanks, I do still find it difficult at times. But hoping it will get easier as the time goes on.
I have my 20 week scan next week and I gave my husband the option to come if he wanted. I don't think he will, but I thought it only fair to ask. He emailed me to say that he is going to talk to his occupational health at work, I hope he does, but I feel like it is best to have no or very low expectations about anything when it comes to him.
It would be nice to have some certainty from him in terms of whether he is going to be involved or not, but I don't think that is going to happen any time soon.
