Fuzzyfish: Does he make you wear a female condom when givin you oral. I hate to say it but not swallowing is in a way a rejection of him. I love to give oral to my wife and I get drenched in her fluids, so what is the big deal with the fluids? Sexually, I don't know of ANY sex that compares to a full blown BJ that is FINISHED. Have him drink pineapple juice every day for days ahead of time, supposedly, it sweetens the good stuff. There is nothing like finishing a BJ while keeping direct eye contact!!