fwiw my darling lou i thought your response was perfect.

yes, dearest keeping the focus on you and your goals is the only solution.

i'm delighted with the proposition made to you by your boss. you've earned that my dear and i hope you pause a moment to look back, see how far you've come and gain strength from that to move forward. well done my friend xoxoxoxo

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver