Help needed from Far-east.

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Japan trip went well. We had a great family time together. My W hardly contact OM while we were there.

After coming back from Japan, OM texted and blamed my W that this trip was unacceptable to him. He felt left out. He wants to be her #1. So, he stopped contact my W for couple days. I could tell that my W was very suffer. My W told me if OM couldn’t understand that she has to have time with family then maybe their relationship will not work. Later on, They texted again but not often like they used to.

two weeks ago. My W said to me she want to be by herself for now. She didn’t want to be with either. She wants to be alone to think and also wants me to think of what went wrong in our R. If we got a chance to be back together again she wants it to last forever. She wants me to leave the house on weekdays and come back with our daughter on weekend.

I did that on first week because I had sth. to do out of town. She was the one texting and calling me every day while I was away. However, I found out she was still contact OM as well(CCTV). I didn’t leave the house the week after because it didn’t seem like she was working on us. She talked to OM a lot again while I was away. Anyway, I was with her the whole past week taking care of her bone pain.

Then, this morning I came out from shower saw her crying on her phone. She said that OM broke up with her for real now and this time she won’t contact him back anymore. She is sicking tried of hiding his calls and fighting with him about her situations. Again, she told me to leave for weekdays. She will tell her parent that we need a break. What should I do? Her house…BTW.