Good job on the GAL activities! Keep it up! Try to add more stuff that allows you to meet new people.
Originally Posted By: Daystar
When my children went to disrespect me last night she quickly put them back in their place. It is an interesting change since it normally doesn't go that way.
Why didn't YOU put them in their place? And how does it "normally" go?
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I told her thank you, she said I am f**** rude. So told her while I understand she is upset and angry, I won't be talked to that way. Then walked away. Went to bed.
GOOD!!
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Her response was we won't discuss it ever. So I told her until she can treat me better she needs to go and stay with her friends.
Great job showing some backbone! If this is different for you then expect some backlash over it. But STICK WITH IT. Even though she'll be angry, inside she will be developing a new respect for you. And that's a positive thing no matter how negative her outward appearance. It's important to be consistent with your changes though, otherwise you'll be sending mixed signals.
She did it because she beat me too it. Normally she laughs or says nothing when they make those remarks. Or she would tell me to stop if I went to correct the behavior. Interesting change.
No sure how to actually make her stay with her friends. Will be interesting to enforce that one. Going to try though. Don't have a problem being around the W. I let her walk on me for so long when it stopped there was so much backlash. Still coming my way though.
I may file first though. I don't want a divorce but she is doing the WAW thing and convinced nothing will change it. Upside at least then I can get custody of the kids.
