Mxdup,

I agree with M, I don't think you have truly started to DB. Get back on the horse and saddle up.

I'm going to change my stance after reading M comment on your therapist. If you were expecting your IC to give the magic answer to fixing your M, then you are going to the IC for the wrong reasons. Your IC should be helping you fix yourself. When and If you get to recon, and marriage counselor will help you work on your M. I think you have to find a way to get healthier and happier for yourself. Then and only then will you have a chance to save your M.

Like M has said let's start DBing today.

Happy turkey day.

M:37 W:37
T:11 M:10
S17, S13, S10, S4
BD:06/28/17
OM confirmed 07/20/17
Recon the M 10/29/17
Working hard:2gether

Onward and forward

This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.