So last night I went out and did my own thing. Called a friend I hadn't talked to in a few months. It was interesting to hear him to say the same things I told him. I enjoy the drives they help me process plus I know a great spot to look at the stars and read. Going to do pool again on the weekend. Starting guitar lessons on Friday I am looking forward too wanted to do it for years.
Did my hypno-therapy stuff on fixing "nice guy syndrome", they help with self-confidence, boundaries, forgiveness and host of other things.
We needed a host of things for dinner tomorrow. So I sent her out to buy them with her money. She didn't seem very happy about it. Oh well. When my children went to disrespect me last night she quickly put them back in their place. It is an interesting change since it normally doesn't go that way.
So some things are better. Once she got back from picking up the stuff. I told her thank you, she said I am f**** rude. So told her while I understand she is upset and angry, I won't be talked to that way. Then walked away. Went to bed.
This morning asked her about what she would be making for dinner tomorrow night, what time her in-laws would be there. She told me she isn't doing this right now. Again just with the Understand you are angry but you can't speak to me that way, we would discuss it later. Her response was we won't discuss it ever. So I told her until she can treat me better she needs to go and stay with her friends.
Excited about tomorrow, I love cooking for people so it should be a blast. Plus her dad is awesome he asked me once if I had considered spanking her and putting her in time out. LOL
