Thanks for the nice note. Although I STILL won't make love to my wife tonite, it does somehow make me feel just a LITTLE bit better.
I know what you're saying, but the truth is that I HAVE always been the one to try to change things. I buy books (Mars & Venus, 5 LLs, SSM), I vow to come home 30-45 minutes earlier from work just so we can spend some time together, I am supportive of her college work, I help with the dishes and the kids, etc. I would send the roses, I would make the custom CD of all of "our songs" from over the years, I would tell HER how wonderful she looked that day or evening, even tho the compliment was never returned.
After 15 years of this, I guess I've finally just kinda said "F&$k it." It hurts to be this cold, but it hurts a helluva lot LESS than pathetically wanting her every day, and being the "sap."
