I understand the stance that I should shake up my wifes world to snap her back to reality, but I am certain this would be the end of our marriage for good. As sandi2 has said, this disruption is sure to cause a change, whether for better or worse.
Are you serious?!? Really?!? Your marriage was over at the instance you caught her foolin' around with another man. There is no way around it. And if you are fooling yourself that you still have a marriage then you are fooling yourself. Big time! It's about time you took your baIIs back from her purse. And I do not mean being a passive aggressive prick. Be a man. Become a man that will not tolerate being disrespected. A woman cannot feel love for someone they don't respect.
And believe me, taking one's baIIs back feels amazing...
