we know there are counter intuitive parts to this at times, like backing off when you'd rather pursue, etc.
But this is a one of those very clear cases in which your small chance of creating a marriage
(because what you have now is an unsustainable war of attrition that does not benefit ANYONE - which is not a marriage)
is by leaving it in some manner.
You're right, it probably won't work, but its the only chance i see that it might.
Face the brutal truth & not the easy lie.
Your w's behavior is Not the behavior of a w who will return to you under these circumstances.
the reality is that She is gone for all intents and purposes, so let her go & GAL
LET HER FEEL SOME LOSS
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
