I felt the same..could not understand how xh could move on so fast our M also was troubled, but I was still shocked he was a totally sober man, a dedicated dad and financially successful
fast forward about 10 years xh divorced the OW last I heard he was miserable and addicted to drugs/alcohol
they will feel the pain of all that they choose and lost but not till later they will run in replay as long s they can until the OW and all the addictions don't work to create euphoria we feel the loss now..its better to be in your shoes than his
use this time to clean your own house and let things happen we cant control them
you will wake up in a better place
This is exactly what I need to hear this morning. It is better to be in my shoes than his, and I will work on getting my own life and mental health together. Thank you Peace!
DB August 6, 2017 after 3 month separation Me: 54 H: 58 Two Teenage sons Living Separately from H Married 19 years, together 22 years Not sure if this is an MLC or WAS