Thanks for the explanations of the books; even though we may not feel we need help in those areas now, I think it's still a good idea to be prepared and maybe *crosses fingers* avoid those sits all together.
BTW...totally off subject, but H and I ML last night...without having intercourse. It was the first time I'd allowed him to give me OS in a loooooong time. I'm talkin MONTHS. Then I gave him some manual help. Afterwards, he told me how much he enjoyed pleasing me, and how hurt it made him feel that I never allowed him to do so. I knew he really missed it, and it's not that I don't enjoy it or that he isn't goooooooooood at it, I just feel akward when he's down there and I'm up here and I can't hold him or kiss him. Does that make sense? Either way, we both feel extremely close today and that would be worth *enduring* OS from him anytime.
><> Hope everyone's enjoying this spectacular weekend!!