My W is clearly basing her choice to leave this MR based on whatever man is willing to sleep with her and stick around. Based on this 25 year old around now my W clearly thrown out several or her so called values out the window with this guy. But lacking of morals is expected. My W was very hesitant about filing until this guy popped up in the picture. Now its full speed ahead. Kind of feel a little bad for the new OM. This kid doesn't have a clue of the pressure just thrown on his shoulders after only a month of meeting W.
Guess my question would be if if this guy ended things with W two weeks from now for example. Could I expect W to be knocking on my door or at least having doubts again about the divorce? I have no expectations whatsoever. But I am just curious about whether this is considered normal behavior of the WW? Wondering if this type of thinking has somehow always been ingrained in her?
Well, that's a question a psychiatrist would have to answer. Unfortunately, there have been other stories that described similar actions in their WW. Some reported having those type of behavior patterns in the WW's other family members, and some didn't. Not every WW goes to that extent, but some do act as if they have the crazies.......especially jumping from man to man.
Would she show up at your door if OM dumped her in a couple of weeks? I rather doubt it. Not unless she's completely destitute. Here's the thing.........if she did show up, she would not be different/changed.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
