Yes I am angry about how she treats me. Kind of angry she won't move out and stay with friends at least for a while. Being told point blank I need to make Thanksgiving dinner for her and the in-laws, then go out for the night so they can enjoy dinner.

Yes I am angry she acts like I am in house baby-sitter, house cleaner and bill paying service. If she wants a divorce that is fine she needs to leave. The expectation that I pay her bills and my BIL bills while they do what they want is utter crap.

No I am not sending the email and deleted the draft. It just felt good to type it and get it out. Read up on validation statements, need to commit them to memory.

As to the laughing it just kind of happened.