Kaizen most of our fights lately haven't been about the divorce. They have been about how she is treating me. Aside from leaving her homeless I really don't have any idea on actions that convey the point.
She gets on her rants about how it is my fault. Anymore I just tell her your right and I understand why you would feel that. Then let it go. Not worth the hassle.
There is something severely wrong with me I am thinking. At some level I enjoy the challenge and the work. Changing me and my reactions has been quite fun to be honest. Maybe it is the mental exercise that I enjoy.
Spent the weekend with them out of a couple of state parks and an amusement park. It was an absolute blast. Planning a birthday party this weekend for my son.
So she was yelling at me last night, I ended up just laughing. See I write software for a living. Logic and abstract thought come very easy for me. Emotions not so much. Learning about those now and just doing stuff with my children and friends.
Any how so she said I never listen next statement was I draw her into conversations where she talks about herself and how she feels. For what ever reason I thought that was beyond funny.
My ADD is showing, no I don't take medication for it. Makes it hard to focus sometimes at least in calm situations. Chaotic highly fluid situations is a blessing.
