It got out if control. But I don't give a damn about cordial at this point. I told S14 that is R with his mother had nothing to do with me. So no I am not trying to get him to take sides. But my child will not walk around here not having a clue about what is happening. Trust me I didn't even tell him half the details of his mother's constant betrayal. Just told why I no longer wish to be in this MR.
Me telling W about herself was me saying that I deserve better than her trifiling behavior and that people are watching. And coming to me about it regularly. Like I mentioned I don't want her in the same room for a long time. So hopefully most of this process can be done separately. Then after 4 more years of parenting, I can be done with her dysfunctional and trifiling a** for good.