Yes, she has actually said it. That's, I think, one of the BIGGEST roadblocks, because it means there has to be all this overhead - there can't be any kind of sex at ALL if it can't be full-blown LM. That's why we can't have different sexual "moods", where one or the other would take care of the other's needs even if they aren't totally INTO it at the moment, and there can't be any REAL GIVING (Michele's term). I'm hoping we can work towards that, but when the overall frequency is less than 10/year, it's awfully difficult. So far this year, 3 times max (one of those is in dispute)...
