So the second affair took place after her grand-parents died and her first month long deployment. She went to Virginia and would call to talk to me but wouldn't stop talking about this guy.
So I asked her to stop talking to him. She refused and said I wasn't being understanding of how she was feeling. That I couldn't tell her who she could talk too or not talk too. At that point I violated her trust and started watching the telephone records. A habit that didn't stop until about 2 months ago. So I could see she would call me talk for 5 minutes and text him the rest of the night. She kept saying nothing was going on until she got back. But we were fighting the entire time over him.
Her first night back, I walk outside and she is on the phone with him. So I take her phone and read there texts and it confirmed they had been sleeping together almost the entire time.
We would fight over it almost another 4 months. It only ended when she found out he was married and he had lied to her. In retrospect, I could have told her he was married. Since I had gathered information on him. I never told his wife. I did talk to him and tell him if it didn't end. I was going to inform the Navy and his wife.
Needless to say that didn't sit well with my W. I spent a lot of that time drinking and doing my own thing. Mainly drinking and playing games. She had given our children to her mother and wouldn't let them come and see me. Eventually she got a job and place in Vegas.
When it was time for her to move she gave me a choice stay in Sacramento or move with her and see my children. After we moved down to Vegas at some point just were back together like nothing ever happened.
