I read Squig post all the way to the end. It's a good read. If you have any questions let me know. I will check it with your thread as much as possible. I'm no expert and I'm still DBing and working on myself. But I will give you what I can from my opinion and what I have learned from the awesome people on this site.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.