So once again I had to be the one to deliver bad news to S14. W called me this afternoon asking if I could bring some of S14 things from the house and meet them at Save-A-Lot. So I meet them in the store and W hands S14 the keys telling him to go with me to put the things in her car. I tell S14 that I will be right behind him in a moment. So I ask W if she mentioned to him that we were going to sign the papers to get the divorce rolling in the morning? W says that S14 didn't want to talk about it. I tell her that isn't an option at this point. W looks at me and gives me the I don't care shrug.
So I walk away and meet S14 in the parking lot. S14 gives me the I don't want to talk about it speech and the whole seems obvious since W cheated. So I tell S14 that we aren't going to avoid talking about it. Mentioned that he is older now and deserves to know what's going on, even though I won't give him details. I tell him that I still love his mother, even though I don't like her. But I am divorcing her, because she won't stop cheating. And when kicked to the curb, she just finds anybody to just cheat with. Which I will no longer tolerate. Told him that W wants to suddenly rush to a divorce, because there suddenly is a new man in the picture. Gave him a brief history lesson on his grandma and great grandmother who exhibit the same behavior. And now W has followed in their footsteps of dysfunction. Letting him know that the behavior is not normal and shouldn't ignored and tolerated.
Told S14 that its alright to be pissed off and that he didn't have to keep all bottled up inside. Needless to say S14 broke down in the parking lot in my arms. W walked out of the store and just ignored what was happening. Told him that if wanted to talk more about it that he could call or wait until next week when he was back with me. W then offered to let him stay with me for a few hours, if he wanted. S14 said he just wanted to get back to her place and take a nap. So that was pretty much my day. Sad for S14 and I seriously wanted to avoid a divorce for him as much as myself. But there is seriously nothing else left in this MR to fight for. My respect for W has gone completely down the toilet.
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