FF, Thanks for your insight. That's what I was a little afraid of. I don't want her to think I'm just scratching an itch but I'd like her to know that I'm ok waiting for her to get her desire sorted out and that in the meantime I'm not having a secret affair with my hand - its all above board. We could kiss cuddle and then when we reach that line she won't cross, I could MB and wouldn't trouble her for more and we'd both be satisfied. Isn't that a healthy attitude?
