No worries M. My W hasn't changed her mind either so try not to let it bother you. As you know things can change and so can your W. Just continue to work on finding your internal happiness. Also remember this one conversation is not making or breaking your chances at recon in the future. At minimum maybe she helped give you some focus areas for your continued personal development. That is if you agree with her assessment and know it is something you need to change.
