I dont know that I would go that far smile. Only you know your sitch and your W so do what you think is best!

I assume she knows everything about your life and personal struggles. Does she know how deeply it effected your life? Could you validate her and talk about how after taking a step back you realize how it impacted your every daily living and those around you including you and the kids?

Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018