Haha! So, that was something. I dunno what to make of it.
I basically told her what I planned on saying. I left out the part of what I would want from the R if we were ever to move forward.
She basically responded by apologizing for the BD coming out of nowhere and that she was there as a friend if I needed her.
The convo basically ended itself and there was nothing more to it. So, I have no idea why she wanted to chat in the first place now - maybe give me some airtime to let out my grievances.
I am basically back to DBing as usual and working on myself and my goals. Going to remain NC/dark outside of kids stuff.
I was expecting a long convo, but it was fairly short. She didn't show any real emotion during it and it was very business like. Guess it's done and there's nothing more to it.