Last time we spoke with the big temp check, she said separation was permanent. All she has ever said is that we have to work on our communications in the context of co-parenting, that's it. I got no problem there and I have been more proactive about it.
Yeah those are all good suggestions. I will use the line 'I need to think about this' if I get stuck lol. I don't want to just say stuff.
My initial expectations were that she would want to work on the MR at some point, but she stated she didn't want to. So, if she turns that question around for me, I will say that I am focused on working on myself and be the person I know I am and want to be.
I am just letting go of the fact that I might say something wrong. I know that I won't blame her, be accusatory, and stay cool and calm. Everything else I already know and I just need to not worry about placating her.
Alright, I am going to grab a glass of wine and then collect myself before I call her. For all late night owls on the board, I will come back and give a report
