Good news and bad news. Ran my first 5K and did great. 27 minutes. Also brought down my time to 8 minutes a mile. So I was feeling great as I returned to town from the run. Then W called about wanting to get the divorce papers notarized and going. I'm sure the sudden motivation has a lot to do with the goofy looking 25 year old she is seeing. FIL will never accept this kid, he is very old school. And my guess is that W will play as if she met this guy after the divorce.
So we decide to meet at my lawyers office on Monday. I also bring up that we need to tell S14. W wants to wait until after the holidays. I say that I want to tell him Sunday, because I am not going to blindside him. Typical WW says that you can talk to S14 about the divorce. So I mention that you just going to put all this on me again. W sighs and agrees that we both will talk with me. At this time, I am reading a work email on my other phone involving a kid. At the time, I mumble under my breath "Is kids name really that important." W suddenly gets mad and says what did you say. I tell her it isn't important. W starts yelling you know what you said. At that moment it hits me that the kids name is the same name as new OM that I apparently am not supposed to know about.
I tell W that I want to focus on our S14 and whatever else isn't important. W continues to get mad and start yelling. I tell W if she is going to yell, then I am going to hang up. W says that I am done with this conversation. She then hangs up. Interesting how she gets caught once again cheating, but is mad at me. But at this point, it isn't even important. Her a** needs to be there at that lawyer Monday to sign these documents. If left to it, I am going to tell S14 the reason I am divorcing his mother. Not giving all the details, but he will know that W is still actively cheating. I promised that I would be honest and truthful about what's going on. Not going back on my word to me. How he reacts will be his right and I will support him regardless.
