GW,

Maybe the reason she was attracted because he was the total opposite of you and her deal breakers. Thats not your worry.

Give her space. Dont tell her about how he's opposite. Let her figure out on her own what's not for her and what is. The more you try to convince this guy is for her to more you push her towards him.

From now on just STOP. When you about to engage your W, tell yourself STOP. That helps a lot. Your job is not to save her, but paved the road home smooth.

You are too worried about this OM, this makes you look weak. Look strong. Stop giving him so much jead space. I know it's hard. The faster you can move on and let go. MAYBE the faster your W comes back. But you have to stop forcing her to do what you want her to do. Almost every post you write you mention her and OM, that lets us all know, that's what you are focused on. Focus on yourself.

How are you doing? Whats your GAL? Whats your 180s? How are you detaching? Update us on you and only you for a few post. Let your W be.

M:37 W:37
T:11 M:10
S17, S13, S10, S4
BD:06/28/17
OM confirmed 07/20/17
Recon the M 10/29/17
Working hard:2gether

Onward and forward

This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.