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I just need to get my emotions in check and start all over. She still is active on the phone with OMand reuses to end it. She says she’s past the point of working on us and refuses to even attempt it. I know there is no point in trying now because of the active A. She still says she wants a D but has no plan at all. After her payments she will have 250 a month left to pay rent and utilities. She can’t go to him I’m Georgia because I refuse to sign an agreement for that and never will. So she has no real concept of what D will look like for her. I have retained a lawyer but she can’t afford one. She’s done the blame game this week, blaming me for making her have an affair. She also freely admitted that she feels sick if she doesn’t hear his voice daily. I took a good look at this and they are so far apart compatibility wise it’s not funny. He smiles, drinks, has animals in the house, and a motorcycle, all previously dealbreakers. I am going to try hard as I can tonfollow the advice Sandi gave me. Time for tough love and not emotional diagnosis. She is what she is, a lying manipulative ruthless wayward. Timentondealnwithnehr as such. Any tips, suggestions or 2x4’s are appreciated. At the beginning of the week it felt like I had gone as far as I could andnit was time to bail but I don’t feel that strongly about it right now.!whoever said this was an emotional rollercoaster was spot on. Sad one day, mad, frustrated, fed up, confident, then back to sad. Hard to keepnitnallnin check.