Well my father in law is like a dad to me as I don't have one, we're pretty close. Anyhow he came round and I didn't really say too much, he said she said it was all my fault etc. I said well anything to justify what she's done. I told him I'm done, I just want space and to move on with my life, I said I'll stay out of her way and cause no trouble, and to ask can they not rub it in my face. It's a small village and difficult to avoid each other but right now it's all about the kids.